Newcomers to BDSM

BESS makes a special effort to welcome those who are new to the BDSM and help each person find their own place in the lifestyle. We understand that you may have concerns about attending a BESS event for the first time and we strive to create a safe and comfortable environment for you the learn more about BDSM and socialize with people who have similar interests. We are here to answer your questions and have a special point of contact for you: Please do not hesitate to e-mail us at new2bdsm@bess-md.org and we will assist you in any way we can.

BESS has several resources which you may find useful as well as a FAQ that may answer some of your questions and/or concerns about attending a BESS event for the first time.